I call it DIFFERNT LOVING. There is nothing wrong with people who are into it.

This is one of the most common and frustrating misconceptions about BDSM.

BDSM isn't something that comes from abuse or domestic violence, and engaging in it does not mean that you enjoy being abused or abusing.

Instead, enjoying BDSM is just one side of someone's sexuality and lifestyle. "It's just regular people who happen to get off that way,".. It's your neighbours and your teachers and the people bagging your groceries.

The biggest myth is that you need this special set of circumstances. It's regular people who have a need for that to be their intimate dynamic.